What is BDSM.
BDSM is a term for sexual preferences and role-playing games that use power play and imposed physical restraints. Often BDSM is thought of only as rough sex and bondage, but BDSM encompasses much more than that. For many, it is a way of life, a form of relationship or is part of daily activities.
The acronym BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Dominance and Submission (D&S) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M). BDSM is an umbrella term for various sexual preferences. The different BDSM forms are not the same but are similar and can be performed well together.
BDSM: Bondage & Discipline
Bondage is all about reducing the partner's freedom of movement. This is done with, for example, a rope, leather handcuffs or certain clothing. There are several reasons why bondage is experienced as sexually arousing. This can be the feeling of helplessness or a feeling of complete surrender where a person can focus on their own pleasure. For the tying partner, this is the power play, the sense of control, and the ability to live out any fantasies. Also, some find it exciting when they see their partner enjoying themselves.
There are different types of bondage. Suspension bondage is a form in which a tied person is suspended with ropes from suspension points. There are also other bondage techniques such as wrapping with foil (mummification), tying up with leather handcuffs or restricting movement with chains or spreader bars.
BDSM: Sadism & Masochism
This form is better known as the abbreviation SM. It is a combination of the words: sadism: pleasure in hurting others, and masochism: pleasure in experiencing and suppressing pain. SM often involves the use of role-playing with the accompanying sex toys. Well-known activities include spanking with a whip, using gagballs, placing clamps across the body, and using buttplugs and dildos.
BDSM: Domination & Submission
This form is all about the balance of power. One person finds it exciting to have power over the other and for the other it can be exciting to feel totally powerless and surrender. This often manifests itself in sexual and erotic role-playing using BDSM sex toys.
What BDSM Sex Toys are there?
BDSM sex toys are used to make the role and power play more intense. You need the sex toys as a dominant to take power over the submissive. The BDSM sex toys are made to restrict, stimulate or hurt the freedom. Are you going to tie up your partner completely and tease him with a sm whip? Or will you drive your partner crazy with nipple clamps and a butt plug? Below we briefly describe which sex toys are in our assortment. Besides the loose sextoys we also sell bondage sets where several toys are included.
Bondage set
Can't choose and do you like to try out different sex toys? Then choose a bondage set. Here you will find various bondage articles that you and your partner can play with for hours. Choose for example this 8-piece bondage set. Here you will find an eye mask, gag ball, whip and leather handcuffs.
Sex swing
Give your sex life a boost with our sex swings. They allow you to vary endlessly with different positions. Most sex swings come with eye hooks so you can attach them anywhere, for example to the ceiling or to pipes. The loops of the sex swings are adjustable so you can adjust the sex swing to your body.
Leather Handcuffs
Handcuffs are the foundation of BDSM sex toys. The leather handcuffs can be used to tie your partner's hands or feet. This ensures that your partner has no way to go. The handcuffs are available in different colors and designs. The inside of the handcuffs in leather are lined with soft material. A chain connects the handcuffs. This can also be removed so you can attach the handcuffs to the bed.
Gagball
A gagball (also called a gag or ball gag) prevents the wearer from speaking and closing their mouth. This is part of the dominant sexual game of BDSM. At most, the submissive can only make noises with a gag ball and, over time, begins to drool. This can be arousing for the dominant. Not being able to speak can help the submissive go all out during sex. The submissive feelings are enhanced by a gag ball. For example, choose this red ball gag with a faux leather harness. The red gag ball is made of smooth, soft material that is easy to clean.
Spreader bar
A spreader bar allows you to force the submissive into a certain position. Here again, it's all about the power play. The submissive can, when tied up with the spreader bar, no longer go in any direction. The spreader bar can be attached between the arms or legs. Between the legs you can ensure that the legs remain wide and the submissive can no longer walk. Attaching it between the arms makes sure that your partner can no longer touch you or for an uncomfortable position. The spreader bar is a popular sex toy within the BDSM world.
Anal Hook
The anal hook is used in combination with bondage ropes, hooks or chains. The metal anal hook has a ring through which this can be inserted. At the end of the ring is a spherical shape that is inserted into the anus. The strong metal material can be heated for extra stimulation.
Buttplug
With a butt plug, both men and women can enjoy anal stimulation. A butt plug is a popular sex toy among the BDSM toys. Go for example for this glass butt plug with racoon tail. The soft hairs give a wonderful tickling effect and the butt plug is very suitable for role play. The tail with butt plug is 35 cm long and slides easily inside with Hismith water-based lubricant.
BDSM Online Ordering
Our BDSM sex toys can be ordered online easily and discreetly. At Hismith we find discretion very important. On the outside of the package you can't see what's inside. There is also no sender on the package, so you can't trace it back to us. You can order the BDSM sex toys without worrying about your privacy.
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